The Relationships from Body to Soul: What is Spiritual Sex? And What is a Relationship Free of Attachment?

"What distinguishes the kingdom of humanity is the relationships that reflect divine transcendence. O human, all you have in this boundless existence are relationships. Make sure to strengthen them so that your soul is not lost after death. The paradise of pure souls is in the memory of the faithful."

Physical-Psychological Relationships:

The word "relationship" (العلاقة) comes from "علق" (to cling or attach), meaning anything between two things. For example, we say something is caught between the teeth, meaning it is in the middle and has become a link between two things. This is from a linguistic perspective, while from a conceptual perspective, relationships are the bonds that connect members of a society. Every society begins with two individuals, and a living society begins with its nucleus, which is the family. The family is the model through which the attributes of society are manifested and appear. Here, we address the physical and psychological relationship between man and woman.

Whether he likes it or not, woman is man's lost half, and he cannot reach his paradise without her, and vice versa for the woman. Every relationship is divided into functional, mandatory relationships and psychological, optional relationships.

Functional Relationship:

This is a formal, physical relationship in terms of biological function. The functional complementarity between the male and female body is a coercive relationship that cannot be altered—the male’s physical sending function and the female’s receiving function. This compulsion makes the functional relationship formal; thus, sex as a reproductive function is a compulsion for both men and women.

Optional Relationship:

This is an emotional relationship that allows for acceptance or rejection, representing the human response to physical and functional compulsions. Choosing a compatible partner based on long-term psychological harmony is crucial because the physical relationship is short-term functional complementarity. Physical attachment will fade over time. For instance, a man might forget his physical relationship after his daily hormonal cycle, and a woman might forget hers after completing her monthly cycle. In contrast, the psychological, emotional relationship remains stored in the human psyche. The man or woman feels the presence of the other, even without physical contact or being in the same place. This type of relationship is known as love. Love begins with harmony between souls, creating chemistry, emotions, and feelings, leading to a spark that either intensifies, consuming you in love, or diminishes, plunging you into the chill of separation. In essence, a psychological relationship involves the partner's soul dwelling within you, as if your soul has departed toward them, making you feel as if you’ve lost yourself and can only feel the other's presence within.

The exchange of souls between you expresses an intense desire to share breaths and moments. Love is about abandoning yourself and holding onto the other. Not everyone is fortunate enough for the other to reciprocate in the same way, but in an ideal scenario, the male and female experience an eternal bond understood only by lovers.

Divine Love:

Divine love toward another person is a feeling of the higher being’s presence without physical complementarity. Divine love differs from love between a male and female due to the absence of physical complementarity. Therefore, most who experience unreciprocated or platonic love turn to divine love, which is mutual; you are in God’s mind, and God is in yours. You are in God’s feeling, and God is in yours.

If you are among the fortunate and experience a true, balanced exchange, you are God, and she is God—or rather, God is between you. This leads to the topic of spiritual relationships.

Spiritual Relationships:

Spiritual relationships are a unity on a moral, existential level and go beyond the duality of man and woman. They are divine, as if the meaning of existence is split between you, each with a role and purpose, ultimately converging into a single fate, such as eternal life or the bliss of paradise.

Spiritual relationships occur between spouses, between teacher and student, between human beings, and even between humans and plants or animals. It’s a bond that connects everyone to the whole, as if you both drink from the same river and share the same breath, as if you both perceive the same moment of awareness—a shared awareness, meaning, and existence. Spiritual relationships are built on gratitude and reverence. Those who share the same ideals, meanings, and transcendence are beyond demands, dualities, and everything. That connection shares the same frequency and path on the same straight path.

Memory exists to immortalize spirits united by existence and meaning. Even if everyone forgets you and no one remembers your kindness, know that a watcher above still remembers you, as if spreading beauty only now.

What is Spiritual Sex?

Spiritual sex operates on the same frequency as creation. In myths and the imagination of early humans, heaven and earth produced everything between them. This is evident in sacred texts, such as Adam and Eve, who birthed all humanity. Beyond the formalities of the story, the Yin-Yang energy is also discussed in Eastern civilizations.

The roots of this cosmic ritual are ancient, as achieving the same harmony between heaven and earth, night and day, is the height of justice, equality, and balance. This frequency can create what you cannot imagine, as it did in the beginning with the creation of this magnificent world. The child born from spiritual sex is a blessed child, healthy in body and spirit, receiving inspiration from heaven’s energy and support from earth’s energy, capable of soaring or swimming as they wish.

Spiritual sex aligns energy on a magical level, like the moment before sunrise, the balance between night and day on the spring equinox. Examples of spiritual unions are widespread in existence. Justice and harmony must prevail, for without them, creation would be corrupted. Coercion leads to hatred, hatred causes repulsion, and repulsion is hell. We do not seek endless night or perpetual day; we seek the peak of immortality in the peak of alternation.

Attachment and detachment are essential to creation, as staying together does not necessarily mean a functional, physical relationship. Heaven separated from earth to allow what exists between them, and the space created a vast universe.

"You must believe in me to be able to trust me. If you trust, I will be by your side, even if time separates us. Death is merely a means for us to meet in an endless space filled with joy and happiness."